Dating a man who smokes pot Fuck girls no credit card

08 Apr

Jennifer Pelham* kicks off her black Marc Jacobs pumps, slips out of her trim Theory blazer, and collapses on the couch.The 29-year-old corporate attorney for one of Manhattan's top law firms has just clocked another 12-hour day, and though it's over, she's having a hard time shaking off her frustrations.So let me preface this post by pointing out that I don't give a shit if you smoke. The first time we made out, I could taste the cigarettes in her mouth, even though it had been hours since she'd smoked one.Because I was trying to have sex with her, I didn't bring it up. It would have been dishonest to continue to pretend that I didn't notice it, or that it wasn't a big deal.

She twists off the cap, pinches off a piece of the fragrant green bud inside, gingerly places it in the bowl of the pipe, and lights up.

If you only smoke a couple cigarettes a week, it probably isn't a big deal either way from a smell and taste perspective - assuming you brush your teeth afterwards.

But there are many men (in the United States anyway) that are more repulsed by the idea of smoking than they are by STDs or dreadlocks. Countless men have told me that they would never date a smoker, and a large number of guys have told me they think it is disgusting.

Over the next 30 minutes, she takes three deep drags, enough to drown out the noise whirring in her head.

Then she eats.—it connotes that I'm high 24/7, which I'm not," Pelham says, wincing. I just enjoy it when my day is over." Her nightly ritual costs only a month, a pittance compared with the cost of her monthly gym membership or a Saturday night out with her fiancé, an investment banker, who occasionally smokes with her.