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07 Mar

Women aren’t obligated to date a man who is struggling.If we prefer someone who is more financially stable, that does not mean that we are heartless, gold-digging and superficial.I was watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer (my favorite show, I’m on season 4) the other day. I’m so over guys who you have an amazing time with and then you don’t hear from them for days. What you want ladies is a guy who will chase after you and impress you with chivalry.I’m on the episode where Riley ‘the hunk’ is super into Buffy and is trying to impress her in a cute knight in shinning armor way, and this got me thinking. When they do finally come out of the wood works, all I really want to say is " Hello, did you die? Yes, a guy taking the reign can be hard on a control freak like myself, but I learned that in order for me to respect a man, he needs to take charge in someway. Communication in dating is in retrograde, because women are trying to seek validation and self worth through men, when ourselves should be enough.And while this may be true in some instances, sometimes a woman financial burdens instead of functioning cohesively as a unit in the relationship.

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Then he went into self-deprecating mode: “See, that woman right there [insert random acquaintance he knows] is my type of woman. It’s like a combination of complaining, not being confident enough in what he brings to the table and judging women based on their preferences equate to this annoyance of a concoction. In other words, he counts himself out of the race for her heart before the “Go! Each and every time I ask him to elaborate on why he feels this way, it all goes back to how she looks, how she dresses and the life that she appears to live from the outside looking in.

I love that independent spirit and that go getter attitude us women embrace.

Still, I feel this has given guys an excuse to not court the girl and to hand over this role to the ladies instead.

Does the girl have to do Everything these days in dating and relationships?

That’s how it feels today as a singledom dating in the 21st century.